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Power and control: Lawyer-client relationship

by Clare Murphy on June 27 2009

A power and control wheel has been developed as a tool for recognising abuse and psychological assault by lawyers against their clients. This Lawyer-Client wheel was motivated firstly by the book Lowering the Bar: Lawyer Jokes and Legal Culture by Marc Galanter, and secondly, by the State Bar of Texas ethics rules (which reflect ethics rules for lawyers across USA generally).

Marc Galanter made a point in his book that lawyers are widely mistrusted by non-lawyers in many societies, and their victims are afraid to speak out loud because of fear of retaliation. But their need to vent is so great that people use humour to express their outrage, and this humour serves as a safe cover. When challenged, the joke-teller can say, “I was just joking!”

Power and Control: Lawyer-Client Relationship Abuse and Psychological Assault Wheel Diagram:
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Power and Control: Lawyer-Client Relationship Abuse and Psychological Assault Tactics:

Using Coercion and Threats
• making or carrying out threats to do something to harm the client
• threatening to withdraw as counsel of record on the client’s case
• threatening to commit incompetent or unethical practice by violating the State Bar disciplinary rules of professional conduct
• threatening to request the court to order a psychological evaluation of the client without just reason
• ambushing and railroading the client to prevent informed decisions
• exaggerating the harmful outcomes to the client
• pressuring the client to accept a plea deal offer
• pressuring the client to do illegal things

Using Terrorism and Assault
• making the client afraid by using looks, tones, demeanors, gestures, actions
• staging temper tantrums
• violating rules of politesse; rules of orderly, fair meetings; and the State Bar ethics code
• displaying weapons or other objects or images of violence
• terrorizing the client
• sadistically manipulating the client
• psychologically assaulting the client

Using Emotional Abuse
• putting the client down
• making the client feel bad about herself or himself
• calling the client names
• making the client think she or he is crazy
• playing mind games
• humiliating the client
• making the client feel guilty

Using Isolation and Guilt
• isolating the client and forbidding client to consult with other lawyers without permission
• using presumed guilt or suspicion of guilt of client to justify abuse
• using private meetings instead of telephone, mail and email communications
• refusing to state the purpose of meetings

Minimizing, Denying and Blaming
• making light of the abuse and not taking client’s concerns about it seriously
• saying the abuse didn’t happen
• shifting responsibility for abusive behavior
• saying the client caused the abuse

Using Information Abuse
• misrepresenting the experience and specialized knowledge of the lawyer
• using asymmetric information to mislead the client
• preventing client from seeing all the evidence
• providing insufficient information for client to make an informed decision
• using misrepresentation, double-talk, stonewalling and obfuscation to prevent informed decisions
• not informing the client about public access to the case file at the Court house
• refusing to communicate, explain and clarify in writing
• failing to disclose State Bar ethics rules existence and contact information

Using Attorney Privilege
• acting like the boss
• treating the client like a servant
• making the big decisions
• ignoring client’s instructions, decisions and best interests
• failing to get client’s consent
• being the one to define lawyers’ and clients’ roles
• not writing a fee contract
• preventing preview of contract before signing
• making unilateral changes to contract after initial agreement
• using vague, ambiguous, ineffective language that protects the lawyer but not the client
• refusing arbitration

Using Economy Abuse
• making the client pay more money
• not refunding client’s money if not used for the stipulated purpose or if not earned
• using bait-and-switch tactics after receiving advance fee payment

The wheel is available for reprinting and distribution for non-commercial purposes. You may download the pdf of the wheel and the complete list of tactics from the originators of this wheel here. Or, you can see the welcome page that discusses the making of the wheel and provides other useful links here.

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Men’s tactics of power and control against female partners

by Clare Murphy on January 29 2009

Today I uploaded an extensive list of power and control tactics as used by those men who abuse and control their intimate female partner.
Click to see Tactics

Types of tactics

The following list of tactics of power and control summarises the list that you can view by clicking on the image to the left. It’s a pdf so you may save a copy. This short list barely scratches the surface of the range of ways women experience abuse and control at the hands of the man they love:

  • One-sided power games including behaviours that ensure he has his way at her expense
  • Mind games including guilt trips and confusing her in ways that make her feel crazy
  • Inappropriate restrictions including refusing to let her work
  • Isolation including controlling incoming information such as what she reads
  • Over-protecting and ‘caring’ including dissuading her from going out alone in case she gets raped
  • Emotional unkindness and violation of trust including promising to help and then ‘forgetting’
  • Degradation including criticising her strengths and achievements
  • Separation abuse including stalking such as leaving flowers – this sends a threatening message that he can always find her no matter where she is. Whereas, an outsider might look at this act, and think of it as a caring gesture.
  • Using social institutions including engaging in child custody battles to maintain power over her
  • Using social prejudices such as saying to a disabled partner that she can’t even walk out the door – this reinforces his power
  • Denial including refusing to take responsibility for the harm he causes
  • Minimising by saying “it wasn’t that bad, get over it”
  • Blaming by twisting the story so she appears responsible
  • Making excuses such as blaming stress at work
  • Using children for example saying he wouldn’t get so angry if she kept the children quiet
  • Economic abuse including not allowing her access to any money, or putting her in charge of the budget, but then spending all the money and abusing her when the debt mounts
  • Sexual abuse including pressuring her to have sex when she is sick
  • Symbolic aggression including threats to harm her family, friends, pets
  • Domestic slavery including punishing her for not carrying out duties he claims she should have, while not carrying out his own
  • Physical violence including hair pulling and dragging her along the floor

Systematic pattern of power and control

As the above list suggests, physical violence is just one tactic among many that some men subject their female partners to. And not all these men use physical violence – ever. Rather they use some, or all, of the above psychological and structural forms of control.

Each behaviour, when looked at separately, could seem justifiable. Each singular behaviour could look like something minor. Each behaviour on its own could appear that the woman provoked it. Just one of these behaviours viewed from the outside – out of context – could appear like he was just having a bad day.

However, look at this short list in its entirety. Now consider this mass of behaviours as a systematic pattern. Also know that women who are subjected to this pattern of abuse and control experience MANY of these tactics – every day, every week, every month, every year – for years and years. Then ask yourself if you think this systematic pattern of power and control is about the man just having a bad day. Or is there a campaign (whether it is conscious or not) to win at all costs and to maintain power and control?

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